Newbie post What to do now

[JustStunned]

Hi LIS, Thank You for checking back. I am better than I was. Detaching is easier although I cannot say why.

For the last two weeks I have not seen W. We have interacted briefly several times. A couple of times it started with a text message and then became a phone call. It has usually been me canceling a house cleaning session. The most recent was this afternoon. I scheduled a DB coaching session and had to cancel this evenings cleaning. Texts from W have been single characters or as minimal as possible. Today instead of K or NP, I received No Problem, nothing to hang a hat upon, but more than usual.

I am sitting on the counter at least until I ask my L when I have to respond by. It has sat unopened in my inbox since Tuesday morning. I planned on tomorrow, but I want to slow this process down so I want to ask when I must respond by.

W comes by on Sat to clean I’ve been canceling these session for two weeks. Sat I’ll do my best to accomplish something with her and keep the tension low. The goal is to for her to leave feeling good about us working toward one of her goals.