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[Denver_2010]

Update:

W texted me this morning telling me that she and her family were getting her grandma's memorial services set up and told me what day that it would most likely be. I responded by asking how everyone was holding up and telling her to let me know if there is anything I can do to help.

W called. She detailed everything that is going on with planning the memorial. I just listened.

Then W asked me if I was serious when I mentioned the other night that I would go to Buffalo for a second memorial for her grandma.

Her grandma and much of my W's family are from Buffalo. Her grandma lived there all of her life up until the last year and a half when she simply couldn't be by herself. W's mom was born and raised in Buffalo.

W had wanted me to go with her to Buffalo a couple of different times during our R so that she could show me the town. It was something about her life that she had wanted to share with me. Of course, I never made it happen. I was too busy with work or whatever. Yes, I'm an idiot.

So the other night when we were at our house having drinks, I had told her that I would have gone to the memorial with her if everything was good with us. She said, 'no you wouldn't have... you never wanted to go with me to Buffalo... well, maybe now you would.' I just said that she was right about before and that I was sorry.

So today, out of the blue, she asked me "were you serious that you would go to Buffalo for my grandma's memorial?'

I said 'yes. If you want me to go or would like me to be there, I will make it happen with work.'

We talked about when it might be. I told her to let me know if she decides that she'd like me to go. She said 'ok'.

We left it there, but we'll see. Sounds like I may be going on a trip to Buffalo with my W here in the next couple of weeks!

That would be awesome!!

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Denver