Thanks Denver i appreciate you stopping by to check on me. i have been trying to keep up on yours and FOBD posts along with a few others.
My W has yet to email me about or further mention a D. I have noticed since our problems began that she does have a tendency to speak irrationally at times. she is one of the smartest people i know and i also know this is out of character for her.
I have decided now more then ever to stick to my guns. A D is not what i want for my D8, my self, or our family. if she chooses to do this i can't stop her, but will not contribute to something that i whole heartedly don't want. I think after she left she thought about things and is realizing that to file now would make no sense. It would only put us deeper in debt, mountains of more stress, and would not help our house sell any faster. I also want to buy myself some time.
Little update on us: I had my D8 last night and was planning to take her to a story-time thing at the library that is no more than a 100 yds from were my wife is staying. She has dropped numerous hints about not being invited to things, so i decided to not make that mistake again. I planned all day to call her after work and invite her along. As i was driving home with my D8, my W called me. She wanted to tell me about some paperwork for my D8 health insurance was filed, something a month ago she would have just texted. the convo soon moved on to all types of small talk and laughing. I told her about the library and asked if she would like to come. She told me she would have come but already had plans. She did not elaborate and in true DB fashion i refrained from prying.
I have my D8 this weekend and was telling my W about a few plans we have, make a snowman, go sledding, etc. I mentioned that my sister would be watching her on saturday night and i was going to our friends bar to see band. She sounded intrigued that i was going to be there and said she was thinking about going too. i slipped up and maybe sounded a little desperate. i told her that if she comes i will buy her a drink or two. i reminded her of this later in our convo too. she seemed to hesitate a little when i mentioned this. i have decided to not bring up the show anymore unless she does to me. She knows i will be there and the ball is in her court.
To the love of my life: I love you and miss you more than i ever could imagine. I could never give up on us!
