Hello Rue, I am so sorry you find youself in that sitch. Mine is similair no A just a WAS/MLC. I have no words for you other than this board is a good place to come for advice and support. Your posts will be slow in showing up, as the board is moderated. Do not lose heart, pick up a copy of DR, read it, digest it. There is no magic bullet, but there are techniques and ideas that will help. Post often and read other posts on this board as they are full of support and ideas.
IMO, it is over when you are ready for it to be over.
Ditto on my sitch and advice!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
