My H also said that I should be open to falling in love with someone else, should find my own happiness. I think its just so they could justify what they are doing. I told him for me my M is a covenant and I do not believe in D, and I have no intention of looking for someone else.
I am thinking I should also have said that my happiness does not depend on another person.....


Me:49 H:45 D:12 M:14 T:18
Bomb: 6/26/10
EA: 9/3/10, fizzled out slowly, now ???
11/5/11 Retrouvaille
Finally piecing....
Its peaceful at last, but we got a looong way to go