Yes, I'd like this to work out very very much, but only if it's an equal effort with equal commitment and equal desire to see it work
Of course any other way is not healthy.
Is she slowly getting there X?
Don't look ahead, look back, measure over time a few weeks a few months? Better? More from her, even a little? Is she slowly doing more of the things you want?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK