Need Advice!! Not sure on next move? Part 2

[Denver_2010]

He said, "I'm so sorry I know you made time in your schedule to meet with me."

"I won't know till Saturday what next day off they will give me. But, can we reschedule for next week?"

Me: Sure, just let me know I have a lot going on. Thanks for letting me know.

H: Can you talk? Are you in your office?

Me: Sure.

H: Oh, you just sound so business. I didnt want to bother you if you had someone in your office at work.

Me: No, I just have a lot going on today.

H: Well, Again I'm real sorry about Dinner. You got a minute?

Me: Sure

H: Started talking about Dog and how he took her to the park and met a guy w/a male great dane. How it's our dogs new boyfriend and how cute they were....repeated his story about her in the snow. (He told me this last time)

Me: That's funny.

H: Yeah, I took some pictures/video on my phone of her I want to show you. They are real cute.

Me: I'd like to see them.

H: So, do you think you would like to see Dog again and keep her for a bit?

Me: Sure, I always miss her.

H: (Laughed) Yeah, think she misses her Mommie she's been acting crazy. (Laughed)

H: Okay, well I guess I'll go talk to later, have a good day.

Me: Okay, have fun at work.

H: Yea, Fun (laugh).

H: Okay, have a good day. Bye

First off Dixie, if you are accurately describing the words you used in that conversation, that is one of the best jobs of DBing that I've seen. Very well played. "I am busy" not once, but twice!? Zing... Absolutely awesome!

He is wondering what is going on with you. No question in my mind.

Keep doing this Dixie! It is working. Do what WORKS!

So, there it is folks. No dinner this evening....I don't know what to think.

What do yall think BITS?

Don't sweat it Dixie! I wouldn't worry about it one bit. I know that it is disappointing, but he was probably being truthful. But it doesn't matter. What matters is what else happened in the conversation that you had on the phone.

It does make me wish that you had cancelled the dinner though. There is a part of me that still thinks that you should have. Maybe next go around.

He still thinks that he has control. But the worm is turning.

BITS
Denver