Newbie- Very Lost- Not Sure where to start

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LIS,

She is mostly very friendly, even tried to hug me yesterday, when she knew I was having some problems at work, but then she pulled back and apologized, saying "you know I am here for you". She just keeps saying and acting "she wants to be my friend", last night, she even slept in the basement with me (we both fell asleep watching TV on different couches). She says she wants to be friends, just can not be my wife anymore, "she will never allow herself to be vulnerable to me again" is her exact statement and she has said it more than once. It is very friendly, but like roommates, and we have our household running as more of a team than we did for the first 16 1/2 years of our marriage. UGH..