Why are you paying for the cellphone that she's using to conduct her affair(s)?
I guarantee you, she sees your behavior since the bomb as WEAK, and it's not doing any good for your OWN self-esteem, either.
You need to draw some boundaries, if you're to keep your sanity.
Starsky
That's an interesting take Starsky. The phone payment has already been made for this month and she will be leaving next month, so I will let her know that she should be responsible for her phone. I guess I've been so caught up in DB'ing my tail off that the phone bill didn't even occur to me.
On another note, John170 posed a question about his W wanting him to find another woman. My W mentioned something similar to me a couple of nights ago. She stated that my next girlfriend can thank her for the changes I've made. I didn't know what to say or gather from that remark. Really? What could I say?
I will share what I believe was a positive sign last night. After getting home from our appointment, I needed to grab a quick bite. I was standing near the counter in the kitchen, W walked over, stopped near me like she wanted a hug......I waited for a second and I opened my arms and got a huge hug. Then our D joined us. I believe that was a baby step.
Sorry, I'm all over the place just like my thoughts.
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa
