Is it easier to lie, or to face the consequences of your own making?

Depends on the person, and also if the consequences are good or bad.

People also do not like being judged, harshly...even if that judgement is likely deserved.

Good,

Right now, I am glad he didn't come home 3 weeks ago, and I think you are too. I hope you are.

He needs to be broken when he hits rock bottom. Realize and own his problems before any true lasting reconcilliation can occur.

And no Good, I am sorry I do not know when that might be, and no one knows what an MLCers rock bottom will be.


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet