Hi Cas, finally caught up with you.. I suppose if I was in your shoes I'd be wanting to move on too.. Ok if OW moves in and H sees the light he might want to come round, surely you moving forward and looking your best for you will only look more attractive and it will be a bonus either way.. If Im honest hun surely its time to have a life for you, your H is still dithering and not making his mind up and moving her in even if for six months is putting the whole thing off yet again. I dont want to upset you but not so long ago you were done with him what changed to make you wait again?

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!