Originally Posted By: lostinscared


1) Instill more confidence in him by telling him again that I don't think that the breakdown was his fault and why.

2) I need to ask him out on a date. He's already agreed to date night so I need to initiate this because he's afraid right now.

3) Initiate a "normal" conversation. Be more open and friendly. We talked about getting involved in a meetup group. Perhaps we can talk about some of things we want to do. I mean we are in a completely new place and there's a lot we can do.

4) Initiate more touches. I know that wasn't mentioned here but that was mentioned in the new book I'm reading.

LIS


1) Instill more confidence in him by telling him again that I don't think that the breakdown was his ALL HIS fault and why. Do NOT relieve him of culpability LIS.

2) I need to ask him out on a date. He's already agreed to date night so I need to initiate this because he's afraid right now. YEP

3) Initiate a "normal" conversation. Be more open and friendly. We talked about getting involved in a meetup group. Perhaps we can talk about some of things we want to do. I mean we are in a completely new place and there's a lot we can do. Just relax and have fun with your HUSBAND... Let all of this go for an evening.

4) Initiate more touches. I know that wasn't mentioned here but that was mentioned in the new book I'm reading. uhum... yes, men love touches.

BITS
Denver


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce