Understand where you are in this race. This started in November, right? Well, it hasn't been that long. It may seem like an eternity to you. I know it does to me. But it hasn't been that long. It's going to take time for her to really believe those changes. She's already noticing as she has already made comments. But belief? That's going to take awhile.
Wanting to be with your girls is NOT selfish. We get plenty of opportunities to beat ourselves up. But in your case, that isn't a reason. You have worked hard on being a good dad and THAT'S A GOOD THING.
Like I said, you keep running your race. No one has to live with your pain, but you. So that means don't let anyone talk you into anything that you don't want to do or don't believe.
