"I just feel so guilty in GAL'ing. I feel that i've messed up my marriage and now i am trying to enjoy myself. I know, very crazy thinking..I just need to stop that."
yep, stop that thinking... regardless of the mistakes you have made, you do deserve to be happy! You need to realize that the mistakes you made in your marriage were made with what you knew at the time. Surely you didn't make your decisions so that you could get divorced. People in general are selfish, we make selfish choices and don't think of the consequences or the affects that they have on others. Take this time to learn what a good husband is/does. Learn what attraction means to a woman. Gal... what does a happy life mean to you. I know everyone thinks that you NEED your wife/ family to be happy, but it just isn't the case. Understand everything you can from these events, give everything else to god and continue to move forward with your life instead of focusing on the past.
Yup, wisely said. I think i just need to do my best and leave the rest to god.
BITS M 38 W 36 D 7 Married 15 yrs W left for 6 months in 2009 W Filed for D 01/03/11 piecing now...
