Originally Posted By: gucci loafer
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I confirmed the "alibi" with her M. Not directly, but indirectly. Also, she was only gone for 2 hours - I struggle to think she was meeting up with someone. I guess it's possible, but it doesn't seem very logical.



Believe what you want...
I am telling you the reality. I think you know deep down inside what that little voice is telling you. You most certainly thought the same thing or you wouldn't have needed to confirm it with her mother...

I know that my mother would cover for me anytime anyplace if I asked her to....

I think you are in denial.. This was not the ONLY red flag I have observed reading your situation.. Just the most OBVIOUS one...


Your choice to believe what you want. I want you to know that you are not doing yourself any favors by denying the obvious.


Gucci, I promise you I do not think she is cheating in anyway. I really don't. My MIL lives with me, do you really think she would flat out lie to me that she was with my W on NYE if she wasn't??

I know what your saying, I realize that in a very high percentage of sitch's like mine the WAS is cheating.

So I'll ask again, how do I go about proving a negative? I told you there is nothing that I can think of in the last 4 weeks or so that would give me any possible idea that she is cheating.


Me - 34
W - 33
M - 8 years
T - 15 years
D7, D5, D2
Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY"
W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011