Everyone says keep the communication open which has gotten easier for me to have short conversations with her and me ending them. I had no contact with her for about two weeks when she started inquiring about me and outright asking me questions about my life. It was a tough first three months not to beg and plead but that only pushed her further away. Its funny that everyone was right that it's like a cat when you stop chasing the cat will crawl right back up into your lap without u even asking. Theres alot of truth to that quote at least in my case.