I don't know what she means, we are back talking civilly which is a huge step from where i was a month ago when she ignored every text message i sent and even went through my mother to deal with our 11 year old son instead of talking to me. She answers me every time I contact her now and even initiated contact this past weekend on her own to see if i had fun the night prior. She contacts my friends to see if i'm out on the weekends, which she has just started doing. She has told me the we are both to blame in the failure of our marriage and that she isn't perfect either and that we have alot of work to do on ourselves, which is true. She has told me that she cares about me and that i'm the father of our little boy and that she will always will care about me she just cant live with me. I really think my new none pressure approach has her thinking that maybe i have changed.
