How did she know she was being recorded? Possibility she checked your internet history when she got the computer and is reading along?
Two things:
1. She said my line of questioning in the morning, before they left. She noted that it sounded like I was trying to get her to blow up. I told her that unlike the night before, I was trying to be calmer yet assertive of my stance. In hindsight I shouldn't have approach her at all. I caved under peerp pressure to protect myself; i really thought it would escalate to legal matter. I didn't trust her enough. 2. I have this thing that she says I do with my face when I lie. She's seen me lie enough times to know if I'm telling a lie. I wish she'd used that technique when she asks if I'm still doing porn or am still addicted to it, or if I lie about whether I take good care of our son when she's not around. But she doesn't.