sparks you need to implement the 24 hour rule (or the 48 hour rule)
you never make any big decisions without waiting at least 24-48 hours
and why are you still discussing the emails with your family
some of your married business needs to stay your married business
Good rule, Figg. I think the 24 hour rule will do me well. I guess I just wanted to show her that I didn't need 24 hours to make this "decision" to give up the emails.
Also, I did not discuss the emails with my family between the time that I had couples therapy and the time I gave them to my wife. I didn't want their influence, as this was my business as you say. I did tell them later that night just so they were aware. Some of my family members were and are big proponents of protecting my a$$. I wanted to make sure they knew that the emails were not a factor any longer.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated
