Anybody ever think that one day (not today, but one day!) you'll realize that this was the best thing that ever happened to you?

For example, this is my second marriage. I got married at 21 to my high-school girlfriend. Big mistake. When we divorced 8 years later, I thought my world had ended, but that enabled me to meet my current wife which is the love of my life. I really think that this "test" will enable us to look back in 50 years on a really great marriage. Steel has to be melted down in order to become strong. That's my decision on how to look at this.


M: 39 W: 37
Married: 9
D5; S3
"It's Over" 09/26/10
11 Day Sep 10/10
Piecing Starts 11/4/10
Piecing Fails 4/11
I move out 5/11
Hire Lawyer 6/11 - Stall 6/22/11
Piecing #2 - 6/22/11
Home 10/11