Even though your response wasn't directly to me I wanted to say thanks for the great advice Sandi. I can see how asking for constant reassurance comes across as needy and goes against appearing strong and confident.

Cheers

M 33 | W 34 | Kids: S4, S3
M: 5/28/05
Bomb: 8/22/09
EA: 8/1/09 | PA 12/26/09
W L: 10/21/09
M L: 11/16/09 | 12/09 to file SA
W & Boys Move Out: 3/14/10