Originally Posted By: Country_Song


I have our D Fri-Sun night, I know she will inquire more through that stretch. I will send a pic if necessary, but no text to go with it, sound OK?


Perfect.



Originally Posted By: Country_Song
The dating thing seems to be a complicated issue, I think I'll put that on hold for now. I guess I was just looking for a way to help myself feel good about myself again. Maybe not the best way to do it.

Thanks again, keep it coming, this really helps!


Maybe a better way to go on this is for you to go out with buddies. I don't think that there is anything wrong with you talking to the ladies while you're out. I did this a couple of times in the early part of my situation and it did help my self confidence. Just to know that if I had to go back out there eventually... that I could do it.

But I changed my mind from last night after reading Dixie's post. She's right. No dating. It could hurt you with reconciliation with W down the road... regardless of your intentions.

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