Sandi, I'm not sure if I specifically told my wife that I was upset with her taking my son for a psych visit with little information, but I did tell her that I'm very concerned and worried about my son; if it was important to warrant a visit, I should be there as well. I essentially let her know I wasn't cool with it. I think I dug a hole by being too persistent and thus cementing in mind that I'm trying to control things.
