Glad you chimed in Harrier. This [censored]! We are in MC and have been for some time. Our next appt is at the end of the month and I will need to bring it up. I will not attack W but I will let her know what I need to not feel anxious. I am also in IC but have not been consistent.

She was so good to me V--Day. Bought something sexy with high heels. Very good night.

You would think the attn would be enough but it's not. I pray she will respond favorably to my needs with regard to trusting her again.


All advice welcome from anyone. Especially those that have been where I am.


M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012