Turned a corner

[verysad2day]

I thought I would start a new thread because I feel that “I” have turned a corner:

Yesterday was the first day in 3 months that I 100% DB. No contact through the day. The urge wasn’t there. Instead of 12:30pm text about dinner, I just went home and made dinner. If he was there great, if not Oh Well. Funny how things worked out.

HE sent me a text about dinner:

H: Any thoughts about dinner?
Me: Starting now…no rush
H: I’m not rushing you, or even obligating you just inquiring
Me: ok

Normally I would have gone on and on. When he got home we ate dinner, played a few poker games. I laid on the couch and he ACTUALLY took the time to go up stairs and get me an electric blanket. THEN, he brought me dessert. He woke me around 11pm and walked me up stairs, turned my bed down and covered me and said good night. He came back a few minutes because he noticed that my light was on and he didn’t remember if he turned my blanket on.

It would have been perfect night if he wasn’t on his computer im’ing back in forth with someone. I tried to see who, but finally just said forget it, who cares?

This morning before work he was back to his luck warm self.

Any thoughts/suggestions or guidance??