any experiences out there like mine?

[KarenR]

Hi, sorry you are going thru a hard time. If you haven't talked to a coach yet, I suggest you do asap. They are experts in giving you the support, advice and hope that you can use to change your interactions with your husband. I see it all the time...when one person does thing differently...they get their spouses attention:)in a positive way. I would look forward to talking to you.