I've only just begun!

[sandycay]

My EXH has lots of anger and is defensive 90 percent of the time. There is no way to communicate with him at all. If I say anything .. he turns it into something negative. I really try not to interact with him at all. I wonder why he always comes and sits by me at the sporting events... blech! I mean he can spew nasty stuff at me and then show up and sit beside me like everything is fine. I have started standing back till he sits but now he stands by me till I sit.

FEG and I are doing well. We had a few bumps but nothing major but it was nice to resolve things by talking.... and listening. Not being made to feel like my feelings were stupid. We are progressing very nicely.

Plus, he invited me to go to Mexico in May with his daughter and her fiance and his BF and girlfriend. He offered to pay for the week at a resort plus food and drinks if I could swing the airline ticket! So excited to be going on a vacation! Now, I need to figure out what to do with the kiddos.