I confirmed the "alibi" with her M. Not directly, but indirectly. Also, she was only gone for 2 hours - I struggle to think she was meeting up with someone. I guess it's possible, but it doesn't seem very logical.
I also remember the work/calendar mix up as well, and again I'm open to the fact that it could be an affair but I just don't see it.
I haven't asked or discussed any sort of A in well over a month, and there really hasn't been any suspicious activity that would warrant there being an A. She doesn't have a cell phone, she doesn't have e-mail or use the internet. We only have 1 car so the majority time she is home with the kids. Other than a handful of times that's gone out on her own, she takes the kids with her if she goes out.
Oh I know for sure if there was an A she be lieing to me about it, I know that. I've been down this road before, I'm not naive.
As others have said, what real value would I get out of KNOWING that there was an A??
I honestly believe with all my heart that there is no affair.
I don't think there is ANY sort of snooping I could do that would validate this one way or the other.
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Me - 34 W - 33 M - 8 years T - 15 years D7, D5, D2 Bomb Nov 10/2010 "I'm not happy and INILWY" W Staying for the kids Mar 13/2011
