This was said to eloquently, and some of the things your H has said about your marriage my H has said about ours. One of the things is being taken for granted. You are right as the years grow we do take each other for granted. Though I did try to do special things for my H through out our marriage to thank him for all he has done for me and our family, but it was in my language. I wish I had read the 5 love languages years ago, but to be honest, after reading it, I still am not sure what my H language is, and obviously one of my faults in not knowing H as well as I thought I did.
I am praying for you and know you will prosper and grow daily in the the woman God has intended you to be!
Lorie W47 H48 D16 M20 H gone 11/9/10 lives w/OW
When you forgive,you heal. When you let go,you grow. When you cry to God, you surrender. When you love unconditionally, you show others Christ's love.