Oh I agree Wii....it is definitely a pattern. City Girl said something on another thread about her ex and other's with that type of personality...that they want to keep 'their minions' in their place. I can see that.

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Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

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he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17