Thanks so much for the boost of confidence, Dixie.

Ok, so he comes home tomorrow night and he's going to want to talk about moving in again.

As you have all pointed out to me, I have to accomplish the following:

1) Instill more confidence in him by telling him again that I don't think that the breakdown was his fault and why.

2) I need to ask him out on a date. He's already agreed to date night so I need to initiate this because he's afraid right now.

3) Initiate a "normal" conversation. Be more open and friendly. We talked about getting involved in a meetup group. Perhaps we can talk about some of things we want to do. I mean we are in a completely new place and there's a lot we can do.

4) Initiate more touches. I know that wasn't mentioned here but that was mentioned in the new book I'm reading.

Ok, what else have I missed?

Thanks all!!

LIS


Me- 40
H - 43
M - 5
T - 14
Separated 2/5/11