Better Days ARE Coming For All of Us...

[dixiegal]

My sweet LIS,

Please forgive me for my tardiness....I've been kinda removed this week. (HUGS)

I just got all caught up...what stood out in my mind was this thought. Doing the same thing over and over and getting the same results is the definition of crazy! LOL

What I mean is this...ya gotta do a 180 here. Think about what really bothers your H. What he says is a issue for him. Then STOP doing it. You love to write...so, sit down and write a letter to him. DONT give it to him though. Then read it out loud and rehearse those things...when the moment is right TELL him.

I think asking him on a date would be awesome...but, ya gotta be ready. Sweet LIS, don't try so hard to have a normal conversation just let it go. Pretend, your sitting with a friend talking, relax girl. You are so funny and have such a sweet soul. I'm sure that is what attracted him to you in the first place. Show him that girl again. I know you can, just ask our GOD to release your fears. Listen about the H wont go to Counseling. My DBing Coach said to me that is doesnt matter. If your going, you will start making changes. H see this and he changes his response to you. So, don't push that issue. Plus, he is down for everything else right? That's huge LIS. So, for now just focus on you.

By the way, you have been so great to me and others on this board. I love reading your posts. You have made me smile and even laugh when it seemed like nothing would or could. Thank you sweet LIS for that gift. So, NEVER doubt your worth to us.

I'm always praying for you!

BITS

Dixie
"Life is Short, Pray Hard!"