Wife had an EA from August-October. After she revealed the A she said she wanted to leave, that we were not "a couple", that she didn't love me, etc.

As far as I can tell she ended it in October when I told her to end it or the marriage is over.

We started ML again in January after my 180, that continue to this day. We again say I love you, discuss future dreams, etc.

All that said, I have a problem trusting again. I'm not sure that this marriage will survive. I'm not sure I can talk to W about this right now for fear it will push her away. Maybe push her back to OM.

Any advice on how to deal with this?

M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14
EA - July 2010
NC w/EA - Nov 2010
Piecing - Jan 2011
I ask for div - Jan 2012
Div papers filed - Mar 2012
I move out - July 2012
Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012