Five more years of just existing will take it's toll. Yes, I want to work on my M and make it better.
Fix, You've been getting some wonderful advice. Folks have been gently nudging you to try to change things up a bit.
Five more years of exhisting.... For what man?? Standing for your marriage doesn't mean poor old Fixer has to merely exist.
More importantly, SHE HAS TO WANT IT. Period. Are your actions in line with making her want it Fix? Is existing attractive to you?
It sounds to me like a wonderful recipe for building up a sh!t ton of resenment too, does it not to you?
Let's say for the heck of it, halfway through that fifth year she snaps out of this and wants things to work out. You can't even imagine how difficult it's going to be for you to look back on 10 or 12 years of just existing. You can't even comprehend that from where you're currently sitting.
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Maybe if she's away from her friends then she'll spend more time with me.
How long have you been asking yourself this question man? It's NOT about them Fix.
Stop sitting there being a wishing stone that just exists.
