Part of me wants to agree with you 100%... the other part... I don't know. It seems that at least part of what we are doing here is to become better people. I don't see what is gained towards that end by dating... and certainly there is nothing to be gained towards the goal of saving the M.
I think that dating should be reserved for down the road... when you have figured out what you want for your life.
JMO though.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce