Looks to me like you're doing fine; nothing needs doing at the moment.
You know that as long as OW is in the picture, there's no relationship with you; as the affair must run its course. And that can take awhile; how long is anyone's guess..something must happen to increase either his or her dissatisfaction to the point it drives the affair to break down....yet, anything can happen; this is MLC.
I wouldn't worry about what he says/does; MLC can get quite strange; and stranger as time goes on...as they go deeper into the tunnel.
Continue to detach; and distance from his drama; continuing to act AS IF; GAL...and simply keep the door open and see what happens next.
Limbo is not a fun place to be; but you seem to be doing well in spite of the circumstances.
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I've decided to offer the dinner/wedding planning get together. Offer, with no pressure - it's strictly up to him.
Keep us posted on what he says/does about this.
Take care.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.
