why are you pushing her so hard?
she asked to only speak about this stuff in therapy but you keep forcing her to deal with it outside of those boundaries

she knows you have the emails
you know she thinks you have more

why would you try giving them to her before an interview when she is probably nervous and when you already know she is in a bad mood?

then you text her several more times?

Sparks...you need to back off and stop being needy
it is unattractive and cloying

you need to let her breathe for real