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Seminole... I'm not caught up with your sitch. I will try to take a look at it if I have time later. I will tell you this, regardless of the particulars, this is going to take you lots of TIME and PATIENCE. DB does work... but you have to actually follow it and do the work.

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Whew.

That makes me feel better. I know that you'd do the right thing, but I just wanted to raise the issue for clarification. didn't meant to take anything away from your good night.

My BIL does criminal defense work too out there. Hope you are enjoying the nice weather.


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Navy could use a little help watching calming down.



Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

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Denver,
I've read some of your posts and wish you the best! I love your quote "If you want somebody to stand by you always, you have to be willing to do the same for them. Even when they’re acting like an idiot." So True! Easier said than done though.

Glad you had a nice, relaxing, no R talk evening. Probably just what the doctor ordered!


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Denver,
So glad things seem to be going in the right direction. You have given me new hope in a week that I haven't had any. Keep pushing forward and things will keep moving for you.


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Gotta say, I LOVE the title of your new thread, Denver.

Did you hear anything from you W today???? I'm really interested in where this is going...

I'm praying for you.

LIS


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Originally Posted By: grr
hahaha
i don't know
how do we know he wasn't wearing them already?


Good point grr...! He's a sly one that Denver! wink


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Hey Denver - just checking in to see how your day was!

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Denver, just caught up with this new thread of yours. I say, waaaaay to go man! It goes to show that sometimes the best times can be had over the simplest and most innocent of things - a drink or two commemorating a recently passed. I raise my glass to you, my friend!

I hope you have many more positives from now on. There will be dips, but I'm sure now you know good times can be easily had as well.


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Denver:

I see you are on tonight giving comfort. What is the deal with you. Anything new to report?


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