Seminole... I'm not caught up with your sitch. I will try to take a look at it if I have time later. I will tell you this, regardless of the particulars, this is going to take you lots of TIME and PATIENCE. DB does work... but you have to actually follow it and do the work.
BITS Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
That makes me feel better. I know that you'd do the right thing, but I just wanted to raise the issue for clarification. didn't meant to take anything away from your good night.
My BIL does criminal defense work too out there. Hope you are enjoying the nice weather.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
Denver, I've read some of your posts and wish you the best! I love your quote "If you want somebody to stand by you always, you have to be willing to do the same for them. Even when they’re acting like an idiot." So True! Easier said than done though.
Glad you had a nice, relaxing, no R talk evening. Probably just what the doctor ordered!
Me - 49 H - 56 S - 23 D - 20 Married 25 years H moved out 10/11/13 H moved back in 10/13/13 H moved out again 8/1/14
Denver, So glad things seem to be going in the right direction. You have given me new hope in a week that I haven't had any. Keep pushing forward and things will keep moving for you.
Togther 10 yrs Married 2/6/2009 Me-29 W-26 S-5 S-2 Bomb 12/10 Separated 1/11 D filed 2/11
hahaha i don't know how do we know he wasn't wearing them already?
Good point grr...! He's a sly one that Denver!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Hey Denver - just checking in to see how your day was!
ZEN
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Denver, just caught up with this new thread of yours. I say, waaaaay to go man! It goes to show that sometimes the best times can be had over the simplest and most innocent of things - a drink or two commemorating a recently passed. I raise my glass to you, my friend!
I hope you have many more positives from now on. There will be dips, but I'm sure now you know good times can be easily had as well.