Originally Posted By: Sad_but_happy
One S acts and the other reacts. One S pushes and the other pulls. Look at everyones sitch. ALL our S act the same way and all us LBS's react the same way.

This statement has hit home with me so much! You are so right! I have read so many of these threads, and you are right, the actions and reactions are almost exactly the same!

Out of nowhere, this statement has really confirmed what I need to do. I need to detach better. I need to do more for me, not just pretend.

But will that last! Haha, the ups and downs of this. It is agonizing... laugh


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