Ok, this is where I am so pained to say what I am thinking. The book, so very, very sweet. But, maybe this is what she means by smothering? I don't know? I'm just thinking about that comment and wondering what it meant? Do you give her a lot of gifts? Maybe back off on that. This way you still can give her emotional support, but she doesn't feel like she owes you anything for the gifts. I don't know, just a thought...
I'm praying for you.
LIS
I think the smothering is always being around. We've been having too much relationship talk. I think the checkins are too much for her right now. It's a good idea. Just not now.
The book is something I hardly ever did before. I want to continue to do this. I don't give many gifts because I want them to mean something. This is something that I feel that I heard her when she said she was excited for the book to come out.
We'll see how the reaction is...
m 40 w 38 married 15 together 18 d11, d8 bomb 12/19/10 2nd bomb 3/30/11 COMPLETELY DONE
