As far as the text, take it as good. She, at least, acknowledges that she is hurting you. That's important. She cares about how you feel. I know about a dozen people on this forum who would cut off a limb for a message like that and for good reason. They need their feelings validated too. That's what she just did there for you.
Maybe not a limb, but I would easily give up a finger.
Stick in there bolt. You are where I want to eventually be. Your posts give me strength.
Me - 33 W - 33 S - 9 months M - 3 years T - 5.5 years Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY PA discovered - 1/18/11 PA began - 3/22/10 Separated