M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
Conversation is a little slow we talking about Spartacus. We started watching the show together and she like it. She was commenting about how she has Starz and she is watching the current episode.
W "this is such a man show"
M "It's got a good story line"
W "yeah I am sure that's why you watch it lol Sex, Blood, and fighting. Every mans dream"
M "I close my eyes during the sex scenes. I just like the story line"
W "yeah right LOL"
Talked about her mom a little
W "Oh someone is here. Let me call you back. It's prob my sister"
M "OK"
Not much but no relationship talk. Doesn't feel like we are getting anywhere but contact is contact. Small Victories!!!
Well 1 hour later i am off the phone. I will not do my usual quote because the conversation does not warrant it unless you guys want to fall asleep.
It was really slow we talked about jobs and family and the such.
Nothing major and no M/R talks.
She seemed very down tonight and I asked her if everything was alright. W "I just feel kind of blah. I am sorry I am not much for conversation tonight"
We finally said goodnight and I came here. Noting of note.
happy for you 2step she is coming around just how many converstions did you have today (or conversations, i'm too lazy to change that)? keep it up and don't f it up!
NOTHING OF NOTE??? Finally!! You two had a conversation that was NOT about your R or your M. I noted that!!
Don't mind read here... but I also think that it is noteworthy that she was 'blah' tonight.... and expressed some curiosity about you and D having such a good time.
Personally, I think that this stuff is more noteworthy that your R talk of late. All of that stuff was just getting redundant. Not bad... just redundant.
I think that you need to have more of these conversations... and be doing more 'fun' things when she calls.
I think that she is missing her home a little.... hum? maybe?
BITS Denver
P.S. One last word on her beating you up... let her beat you to a pulp 2Step... We can worry about what the W did to help bring M down once they're on board to actually save the M. That is step one... and to get there:
listen, validate, listen, validate, listen, validate... sure you're getting beat up... but you can take it!!
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
