Bolt Just jumping in on the topic here, my W also has been looking good lately - she is really into yoga and has been putting time and effort into her appearance. She knows she looks good and I think she is using that as her source of "independent strength" as she moves forward to develop a life of her own without me. So my compliments to her as to how good she looks is merely adding fuel to that fire of independence and divorce in her mind. She is most likely thinking to herself, there is going to be a line up at my front door once I divorce my H (me) and if he thinks I look hot - which she does - so much the better because he will know what he is going to be missing.
I think my W is enjoying it quite a bit actually - in a sad sad sort of way
M-58 W-56 Married 33 years BOMB -Sept/10 Separated 8 months
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