That is the problem with seeming to be doing so well...
It's almost like triage, yeah your hand is cut off but this guy has a sucking chest wound...
Stunned, post to others, talk to them and they'll respond in kind as well. Build a support group, find the BITS and start talking with them, it s a good group of guys and gals and : ) BITS never walk alone.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK