In contrast, I find knittedscarf's post right on the money, and essential to consider.
I believe the quality of our results is based on the quality of questions that we ask. So asking myself questions like:
What do I really want? What do I truly value? What do I deserve? What is truly most important to me? Looking back on this, what would I like to have done?
These are the kind of questions that can give us strength and build our character.
They can make us feel better about ourselves, increase our confidence, make us feel more attractive, make us less dependent on other people to get our needs fulfilled, many helpful things.
And, I agree with you Wanda, sometimes just identifying our needs, never mind getting them fulfilled, is certainly no piece of cake.
Perhaps knitted scarf was saying it is relatively easier to make decisions when you know exactly where you stand.
Peace.
I am being the possibility of:
1) Integrity 2) Loving myself completely. 3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.
