Thanks Denver, that helps a lot. I would say that the 'friend' card has helped a lot. It got us from the point where she didn't want to talk to me at all, to where now she is comfortable coming by the house while I'm here to grab things, initiate phone calls and text, etc. However, I can feel like it has hit a plateau. Definitely no mention of R or reconciliation.

Let me describe our interactions a little bit. On the nights I have our D my W will usually text "How is the girl? "Send a pic," etc. And on the nights she has her she will send pics as well. These are our main interactions. Between these there are occasional stints of light conversation, for example I told her about the new Radiohead album this morning.

So, the conversations in between, I can cut our easily. But tonight for example, I have our D. She texts and asks for a pic. I just ignore it? Seems hard to do without coming off as angry for some reason.

I know you are completely right about the A, nothing I can do other than just ride it our and hope that her feelings start to change.


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