Yeah 2Step... I don't think that now is the time that you should be worrying about defending yourself or getting your W to take some responsibility.
You want to continue to listen and validate when you are having these R conversations. It's the number of R talks that you are having that is bothering me.
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce