I have to becareful when and how I defend myself. My initial reaction is to defend myself and letting her vent is one of my 180's without correcting the record. That will come with time but right now it is not the time. I tried that in the beginning and it gave me poor results.
An interesting thing happens though, the level of attack has lesson as I defend myself less. The less I defend myself the less she attacks, at some points she has come to my defense from her own attacks. Not often.
I hope to get more clarification from my DB couch this sat
