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the number one reason is our son......i want him to have his family together


You sure? There is more to it than that.

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i really do love him
i don't know that i feel that romantic kind of love right now


Ah. The in love experience or the obsession masked as love has faded. Welcome to real love. Not the kind of love you feel when you get those butterflies or your every thought is consumed by your spouse. No. I am talking about real love. The one that recognizes your partner has bad breath sometimes or one foot is shorter than the other or he has a sleepy eye BUT you still love them anyways. When you can recognize their imperfections and still love them for all their short comings.

See we think that we should feel "in love" with your partner all the time. I disagree. To love someone is to recognize that you will not love everything about them but still chose to love them.

That is how I feel about it.

So again……

Why do you want to save it?


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