Originally Posted By: ironMan
I kept having to pause the TV so she could talk to me.



Ironman... I used to do this exact same thing. It's weird how the W always wants to talk during the actual show and NOT the commercials... but I digress...

Can I suggest something to you here?

Don't pause the t.v. Turn your attention completely away from the t.v. and to your W while she is talking to you. When you pause the t.v., your W may perceive that as she is bothering you and that you are more interested whatever television show that you are watching.

Do me a favor and record whatever show that it is so you can go back and watch it later.

Our W's deserve our attention guys. It seems that in many of our sitch's, mine most definitely, this was a major issue that has led us to this board. Let's learn from it!

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